Saturday, January 16, 2010

not-so-good-comments from not-so-good-people

why do people gossip too much? its fine if they will talked about something positive. Personal opinions and comments that are inspiring, motivating, pleasing to the ear. but what if its about something that is degrading, offensive and humiliating... super negative thoughts that will not only hurt your emotions (as if stabbing you directly in the heart) but will injure your soul as well?

Its just very easy for us to comment negatively to someone but sometimes we need to think about it whether its proper to say it loud. we are all free to express our opinions on something about life and anything whether its positive or negative but somehow consider the feelings of the people around you. its okay if its just constructive criticism...atleast the "not-so-very-good-comment" of yours will serve as a challenge to improve someone's life.

Sad to say but gossip is already part of our society. its a habit for some who doesnt have to do anything about their life so they find it interesting to talk about other's life, perhaps maybe they're not personally happy with their own and can't tell it to their face that their "life sucks." yah their life sucks and they cant do anything to change it so they make yours suck more so they will suck less. waaaaahhh. stupid right?

i hate such people. its just fine if they will tell it to your face. but what if not and the "stupid-ignorant-you" doesnt know anything at all...finding out one day that you're the talk of the town because of such gossip from such "super mean people". grrr. isnt that very irritating? why cant they just simply shut up? why do they need to talk about you? what will they gain out of it? huh?

-cha-